Most people don't speak candidly about their lives. The stuff of life--trauma, abuse, or out-of-control behavior--is generally too grotesque and overwhelming for people to reflect on, let alone share publicly. Shame and fear incarcerate and keep one in isolation.
Jenny Skylark Kuvin is a notable exception to that. In The Terrible & Wonderful, Ugly & Beautiful Story of My Life So Far, Jenny shares her journey without shame, fear, or excuse, highlighting how one just doesn't survive but also comes to accept the terrible and wonderful, ugly and beautiful that oft characterizes human existence on this planet.
Jenny's story is a page-turner. When one thinks things can't get worse, they do. And yet their is a scarlet thread of redemption woven throughout, a voice calling to her through the darkness that all is not for naught.
I recommend Jenny's book to anyone who is wondering how bad things in life can be transfigured for one's good. I recommend Jenny's book to anyone who who has been impacted by sexual trauma, physical or emotional abuse, or addiction. I recommend Jenny's book because she's become a dear friend, personal rabbi, and prophetic voice in my life this past year.
This story is not about religion or answers. It is about radical honesty, acceptance of life's incongruities, and transformation.
Her story to me echoes the lyrics of Dolly Parton in Travelin' Thru:
God made me for a reason and nothing is in vain
Redemption comes in many shapes with many kinds of pain.
Her story will inspire you to find your own redemption in very real pain. Truly, nothing is in vain.
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